What Your Ministry is Most Lacking [It’s Not What You Think]

What is most lacking in your preteen ministry right now?

Pause for a second and answer that question.

Our initial answer to that question is often not the real answer.

Before we reveal what many of our ministries are really lacking, let’s look at some of the most common answers.

Here are some common answers to that question:

Volunteers

We need help recruiting, training and keeping volunteers.  We’re lacking volunteers who understand preteens, are committed to building relationships with them and passionate about pointing students to Jesus.

Programming

Many answer that question with programming ideas. We lack engaging worship, creative messages, exciting games, or ways to help preteens go deeper in their relationship with God.

Partnering with Parents

Many feel the missing piece is effectively partnering with parents. We know that parents have the most influence in the lives of preteens, and we want to walk alongside of them.

Maybe your answer was different.

But we often miss the REAL answer to that question.

For many, what is lacking the most in our ministries is God centered leadership.

God centered leadership is…

• Putting God the center of your life and ministry
• Paying attention and listening to God’s voice
• Surrendering your daily to-do list to God
• Allowing God to lead your ministry, rather than taking control
• The list goes on…

I just got back from the FourFiveSix Conference in Greenwood, Indiana. It was an amazing conference dedicated specifically for those in preteen ministry. One of the big takeaways for me was how Jesus was the center of the conference.  The FourFiveSix team did an amazing job of pointing leaders to God centered leadership. In fact, this blog post was inspired by the closing session at the conference.

We all want to approach ministry with God centered leadership.

None of us intentionally goes in another direction.

However, there are some roadblocks to God centered leadership.

These roadblocks are subtle and have a way of sneaking up on us.

If we’re not paying attention, they will take us off course.

Self-Reliance

Often, we get really good at leading a ministry. We see God moving in the lives of our students. In fact, we get so good that we stop depending on God. We rely on our own power and strength to get things done.

Approval of Others

Some of us let the approval of others dictate the direction of our ministry. For example, you might feel that God has something better for your ministry this summer other than VBS. But you decide to not move forward with a different program because you don’t want to rock the boat.

Inability to Say No

Many of us have a tough time saying no. We have such a heart to reach preteens that we take on too many projects. We have a tough time saying no to ourselves. Or maybe we have a tough time saying no to others. We say yes to too many projects placed on us by others.

Demands of Ministry

Let’s face it – the demands of ministry are difficult to manage at times. We juggle a lot all at once. We’re expected to lead with a compelling vision, empower a team, recruit volunteers, come up with programs to lead students to Jesus, be a shoulder to cry on for students in trouble…..and the list goes on. The needs of those around us are never-ending. There are always more volunteers to recruit, students in crisis, and more programs to run.  We get so busy in the day-to-day grind, we lose sight of the importance of placing God in the center of everything we do.

Sure, there are other roadblocks to God centered leadership.

I just named a few.

For many, what our ministry needs the most is God centered leadership.

We simply need to place God the center of everything we do in ministry.

It sounds so simple and appears too obvious.

Maybe it is that simple though.

Just maybe a lot of the stress we’re experiencing is because God isn’t the center.

In order for us to experience God centered leadership, we need to:

• Surrender our ministry problems to God.
• Listen to God’s voice.
• Pay attention to what God is doing in and around us.
• Rely on His strength for the courage to move in God’s direction.
• Slow down, pause, reflect on God’s presence in our lives and ministry.

I encourage you to pause for a moment.

Bring this question before God…

Is the ministry you’re leading lacking God centered leadership?